Gratitude Lists

In November, there were many “what am I grateful for” lists in line with the Thanksgiving holiday (here in the USA).  I always enjoy reading these lists and they inspire my own list thinking/making. Gratitude is also one of the positivity practices that I am working on using more often to help with my negative reactive … Continue reading Gratitude Lists

A Year in Review – Through a Blogging Lens

It’s been said that for many, a blog is an on-line diary. Although I try and keep my blog on topic of its name (retirement transition), it does reflect the state of my life.  So here is a look back at my 2023 life, through my blogging lens. I did have a number of posts … Continue reading A Year in Review – Through a Blogging Lens

How Can I Feel a Sense of Belonging?

Finding new connections is often a large element of retirement transition. Many people lose a sense of belonging, as they no longer have their work/career connections.  A move to a new location, another element often in retirement, can exacerbate this feeling of not belonging.  Having a feeling of belonging has always been a challenge for … Continue reading How Can I Feel a Sense of Belonging?

A Look at Habits

Habits. I’ve been seeing random quotes about habits recently.  It’s always intriguing to me when a repeat message shows up.  What is the Universe trying to tell me about habits?  Here’s two that stuck in my head: You become what you habitually do. Optimism is a learned habit. Why is it that dropping good habits is … Continue reading A Look at Habits

Fall is Finally Here

It still surprises me to be able to be wearing shorts and t-shirts in early to mid November. It doesn’t quite feel like the autumn days I recall in my years of living in the lower mid-west.  But, fall has finally arrived with overnight lows hovering at 65F and days still approaching 80F. This time … Continue reading Fall is Finally Here

A Retirement Hobby

When I retired, I didn't think I had any hobbies or many outside of work interests. Being a workaholic had me working too many hours and then off-work hours, still being in the mental space of work with work-based reading or thinking about projects. But I’ve recently come to the awareness that I was an amateur gardener … Continue reading A Retirement Hobby

Which is it – Follow your Dream or Find Joy in the Life you’re Living Today?

Yesterday and today I’ve had conflicting messages coming at me.  One was about following your dream and not to be dissuaded by others. The heartfelt message communicated was, it is never too late to manifest your dream. Take up an old/new passion in your 50’s or 60’s or 70’s!  Join a band, learn to paint, travel your … Continue reading Which is it – Follow your Dream or Find Joy in the Life you’re Living Today?

Retirement A to Z

I love lists.  I’ve been contemplating crafting another book that lists things (in words) that impacted my retirement journey.  I recently saw a number of A to Z taking stock posts, which is a form of listing. I’ve used an A to Z list approach before. It gives structure; I love structure. So, why not … Continue reading Retirement A to Z

Morning Journal

Today I realized I was one page away from finishing my current morning-pages journal.  I started doing a variation on Julia Cameron’s Morning Pages early in my retirement journey after I read her book, The Artist Within. It was my first indication of my love of writing, which led me to writing a blog and … Continue reading Morning Journal

To Quit or Not to Quit?

When I retired, I believed that I was leaving behind any worries about work culture. Throughout my career, I experienced both positive and toxic work environments, almost always in relationship to the leader of the group. Yes, as stated in the literature, I lived a few of the “bad leaders create toxic work culture” situations.  Most times … Continue reading To Quit or Not to Quit?