I Did It List – A New Tool

Recently I saw another intriguing tool called the “I Did It” list. You know I love my lists! This tool was to help someone feel like they had accomplished something – in the day, or week, or month.  You were encouraged to not just focus on the big milestones, but the little things you got … Continue reading I Did It List – A New Tool

Writing Future Scenarios

One of the fun tools I played with early in my retirement transition was writing 5 vignettes (short scenarios) based on 5 years in the future. I was learning about my love of writing and this sounded like a fun way to write creatively and also push my thinking on where I wanted to be … Continue reading Writing Future Scenarios

From Workaholic to A Life of Leisure

When one hears the phrase “Living a Life of Leisure” it often brings a sense of over-indulgence, selfishness, lack of responsibility, having no life purpose, or simply wasting time. Maybe that’s just my innate workaholic or the Puritan ethics I was raised on, but I have a hard time to not feel guilty with living … Continue reading From Workaholic to A Life of Leisure

How to Create an Exercise Habit

When you transition into retirement, there are often new habits that need to be formed as your old structure goes away.  Some folks might not need a structured day, some do.  But almost everyone has to create new habits. Many of us set being healthy as a retirement focus with beginning (and keeping!) new exercise … Continue reading How to Create an Exercise Habit

Follow the Synchronicity

It is often amazing to me when synchronicity happens.  Of course, the first time a message is coming at me, it is easy to ignore. The second occurrence, I wonder, “Is that a message coming through?” By the third time, I have to follow it down the rabbit hole!  Such was the case on chakras … Continue reading Follow the Synchronicity

New Things – Things on Repeat

Early in retirement I found the idea of 52 New Things (find that blog link here – from June 2018!) and implemented it.  Combined with my idea of Possibilities List (original link here - from Sep 2015), this started me on a continual path of finding new experiences. For a number of years I’ve tracked … Continue reading New Things – Things on Repeat

Should I Join the Multi-Hyphenate Identity Trend?

Even approaching 10 years in retirement, I still stumble over answering the question, “What do you do?’  For 30+ years, my total identity was singular and tied to my career, to what I did. I was a Products Researcher at P&G.  [For those not familiar with the Corporate lingo, that’s a product designer for Procter … Continue reading Should I Join the Multi-Hyphenate Identity Trend?

Around and Around on a WOTY

I have not picked a WOTY (Word of the Year) for a number of years, but put serious thought into doing one again for 2024.  I enjoy reading what words others pick and why.  I enjoy watching how those words play out over the year.  I’ve had success using a WOTY before – JOY one … Continue reading Around and Around on a WOTY

Volunteering in Retirement

Volunteering is often a large part of many retirement plans. It’s assumed you now have time to donate!  But, I’ve struggled with this concept as I was never engaged pre-retirement with any volunteering and therefore had no relationship with any organization.  I didn't have any deep desire – to teach ESL, to read to children, … Continue reading Volunteering in Retirement

A Follow-up/Wrap-up Post

The last couple of months I had a number of posts talking about various situations I was struggling with.  First, I want to express thanks to all for the heartfelt comments on those posts – perspective, insights, commiseration, virtual hugs, and advice (even if I didn't take it, I did consider it!)  The comments helped … Continue reading A Follow-up/Wrap-up Post