summer solstice

There’s a meme about how old you are when you realized things.  I just realized that the astrological summer season starts on the longest daylight hour day of the year, which means summer days are all about fading daylight hours. Before this I always equated summer with long daylight hours, when in fact spring has … Continue reading summer solstice

Practicing Positivity in my Retirement Years – a Reflection

In my retirement transition journey, I’ve explored the area of positive psychology in a number of different ways.  First, early on in my retirement, I intentionally tried to shift from being a critical, cynical pessimist to a more positive person.  I had a boss once say to me, ”You’ll never be happy”.  I really wanted … Continue reading Practicing Positivity in my Retirement Years – a Reflection

Forgiveness and Boundaries – Easier Said Than Done

During my grieving journey, I have been struggling with forgiveness.  I have also had a few instances where others have triggered my insecurities, resulting in me not managing my anger effectively.  Am I forgiving myself?  Forgiving others?  Setting appropriate boundaries?  A recent discussion made me realize I needed to better understand forgiveness and setting boundaries. … Continue reading Forgiveness and Boundaries – Easier Said Than Done

Spring Review and Summer Planning

This spring, for the first time in a long while, I did not create any kind of seasonal plan.  No action plan, no possibilities list.  I did continue to track “new experiences” as well as books read and new recipes tried.  I use my tracking not for goal achievement, but to allow myself to look … Continue reading Spring Review and Summer Planning