Becoming a Butterfly?

I find the analogy of a flower and butterfly a fun way of thinking about engagement at a gathering/party.   For many years, I was in awe of the butterfly personality at social gatherings.  They flit from flower (person) to flower (person), seem to know everyone, and look like they are really enjoy the gathering. … Continue reading Becoming a Butterfly?

Dabbling versus Discipline

In one of my summer readings, I came across the concept that a life of discipline leads to fullness of life (happiness).   “With a life live with discipline, we become a better version of ourselves every day, able to fulfill our destiny and find happiness.”  Mathew Kelly As I continue to process my acceptance of … Continue reading Dabbling versus Discipline

Gratitude

While it feels a bit cliché to be crafting a blog post on the topic of gratitude in November (which in the USA is our Thanksgiving holiday), the practice of gratitude has been a significant factor in achieving a feeling of happiness in my retirement.  I use this practice a few different ways:  Daily gratitude … Continue reading Gratitude

Summer Study Part 3 – Imagined Reality

This blog continues sharing insights from my last summer reading program. (see blog posts one and two here).  This blog post focuses on my insights into the fascinating concept of Imagined Reality. The Cognitive Revolution in humankind could be considered the defining moment for our species. The behavior of all other animals has been determined … Continue reading Summer Study Part 3 – Imagined Reality

Summer Study Part 2 – History and Religion Intersect

This blog continues insights from my last summer reading program (see part one here) with a focus on religion’s impact on some key global historical moments. I started reading about religion and it veered into reading about history. The intermingling of religion, politics, and economics throughout history is fascinating. One of the key global turning … Continue reading Summer Study Part 2 – History and Religion Intersect

Summer Study Review – Part 1

One of the joys of retirement is having the time to explore new things (and the freedom to post a blog when you want).  As I have previously done with my deep learning explorations, this post begins a series of blogs on the topic. Last summer, I had prepared for the oppressive Florida heat with … Continue reading Summer Study Review – Part 1

Daily Gratitude for a Positive Mindset

When I retired, I made a conscious effort to become a more positive person.  During my career, I was a critical, cynical pessimist. I was the first to point out the issues in anything, including what might go wrong 3 steps down the path being taken. I even had a boss once tell me I … Continue reading Daily Gratitude for a Positive Mindset

Retirement Hobbies

Part of my retirement has been figuring out hobbies.  For years I was a workaholic and didn’t have many outside of work interests – no hobbies, no clubs, no exercise program.  When I started my own hobby-exploration, I wasn’t even sure what a range of hobby options there was! Although my days now do include … Continue reading Retirement Hobbies

Has the meaning of RSVP changed?

I’ve been wondering lately, has RSVP etiquette become obsolete? Am I becoming one of those people who can't adjust to the new ways of doing things? Am I starting to be one of those people who talks about the "good old days"? I’ve noted many instances where RSVP etiquette has been ignored. Here’s a couple … Continue reading Has the meaning of RSVP changed?

Hurricane Evacuation – a Swirl of Emotion

This blog post is a personal reflection on this past week.  I needed to do it for my own mental health.  It has absolutely nothing to do with retirement transition! We knew when we moved to our new home in Florida that hurricane evacuation was a possibility.  But we had owned property (second home) in … Continue reading Hurricane Evacuation – a Swirl of Emotion